Just say you’re not interested

When being interviewed for new client work, inevitably there’s a period of courting that entails a bit of flattery and flirting. You meet, you chat, you send a few messages back and forth to show interest. Although there are those who will choose someone else (which is totally fine), there are others who continue to play the courting game even if they have no intention of working with you.

Without realizing it, you play this game, a back-and-forth that lasts months (if not years), while you spend time and resources replying to their requests (updates, proposals, ideas, etc.) – all for nothing.

This is not a case of having an open RFP (i.e. request for proposal): think of it of a real-life dating show, which asks suitors to submit their proposals, they are reviewed, then the list is whittled down to a small group of finalists, ending with the selection of a “winner” and a signed contract (a wedding is not required).

This isn’t that. These individuals just want the attention, nothing more.

If you’re not interested, it’s best to say it so both parties can move onto the next one. It’s the grown-up and mature thing – not to mention respectful – to do.


This entry was published on January 10, 2018 at 12:00 am and is filed under Misc bits, People, places & things. Bookmark the permalink. Follow any comments here with the RSS feed for this post.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: